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Decisions Based on Love not Fear

There are only two primary emotions, love and fear. Every decision or choice we make comes from a place of love or fear. We cannot feel these two emotions together as they are opposites.

Love based emotions include hope, joy, gratitude, peace, faith, trust, confidence, happiness, connection, forgiveness, openness, passion, freedom, harmony, honesty, beauty, compassion, self-love, self-appreciation, respect, acceptance, understanding, etc.

Fear based emotions include anger, grief, shame, guilt, bitterness, judgment, jealousy, frustration, doubt, insecurity, etc.

If we do not actively seek to make decisions out of love then we will be doing so from fear and become subject to its component feelings.

When it comes to medical and funeral wishes those who choose love plan ahead. We involve those that will be affected and we share our wishes. Love creates action.

When we choose not to plan ahead. It is fear that stops us. Fear creates inaction. We can believe that we are not worthy and our wishes are unimportant. Fear showing who we are to others. Fear being taken advantage off. Fear being ridiculed. We convince ourselves that we need to hide our true self and isolate from others for protection.

Fear stops us from doing. Inaction is not a neutral choice. There is only love or fear. If we have not chosen love then we have chosen fear.

The Listpals App makes it easy for everyone to actively choose love when it comes to our medical and funeral wishes. It creates action.

It makes us understand ourselves better and to see value in who we are. From this love and understanding of ourselves we become more willing and free to connect and share with others.

The Listpals App allows each of us to plan ahead and share our wishes with loved ones. These wishes are safely stored and are at hand when required.

The Listpals App ensures that decisions are made now from a place of love. Not in the future out of fear.

The Benefits of Sharing with Listpals.

FEELS GOOD

Founding director of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies at Claremont Graduate University, Paul Zak, found that when people share, their brains release the hormone oxytocin, sometimes called the “feel good” or “cuddle” hormone, which relieves stress.

MAKES US GRATEFUL

In her book The Myths of Happiness, Sonja Lyubomirsky points out that “people who regularly practice appreciation or gratitude – who, for example, ‘count their blessings’ once a week over the course of one to twelve consecutive weeks – become reliably happier and healthier.”

INCREASES TRUST

Imagine what the world would look like if we trusted more people!

If we opened up more to others, they would likely do the same with us.

Sharing gives us the opportunity to shed some of our suspicions of people. It’s a great way to extinguish our doubt about what’s good in the world.

RECOGNISES OUR VALUE

When we hold things in and let our thoughts take over, it’s easy to drown in our own words.

The longer we keep what’s happening in our lives inside, the more disconnected we can feel.

Sharing with others helps us to treat our inner dialogue as something of value.

HELPS EVERYONE

Thinking we can live life without letting others have or use a part of what belongs to us can make us feel isolated, almost like no one in the world cares or could understand.

But when we share with others, what we learn is that we’re actually creating more joy, gratitude, trust, and community – not only for ourselves, but also for the world.

THE APP BRINGS PEACE OF MIND

WHICH MEANS YOU CAN FOCUS ON SHARING & CARING

End to End Encryption

Wishes only seen by those you choose

Solid & Reliable

Built upon Google Firebase

You Are in Control

Limitless changes

Auto-Sync

No confusion

Personal

As much or as little detail as you wish

Zero Cost

No fee. No credit card details.

Supporting The Listpals App.

Helping Everyone Choose Love Over Fear

SAIF (The UK National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors) represents over 1,500 funeral homes in the UK. SAIF encourages everyone to plan for their funeral and in so doing choose love over fear.

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